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Beyond the Third Door
Maria Heckinger

My book has three narrators:

  • my birth mother, Hariklea,
  • my adopted mother, Ellen, and
  • myself.

It is the tale of two mothers and their connection to one child.

One mother experienced shame because she had a child and the other because she could not.

I am one of 3,500 Greek orphans adopted to the U.S. in the 1950s.

Conceived in an act of violence, I was born to a fifteen-year-old child who was exiled from her island home for 44 years.

Homeless and seven months pregnant in a large mainland city, she could not care for me and lost me to foreign adoption.

Raised in California, I returned to Greece when I was 30 where, through a series of life-changing events, I reconnected with my birth mother.

Based on documents and oral histories given by both mothers, and my experiences, it is a tale so miraculous it touches the fine line between blind luck and unexplained miracle.

Background:

I found my birth mother in 1984 in one day.

Each trip I made I brought a list of questions and a journal.

As time passed and I learned more about my family, the story became more and more incredible.

I didn’t decide to write my book, I knew I had to write this book!

My adoptive mom’s scrapbook, loaded with primary documents from Greek and U.S. agencies, provided a comprehensive look at international adoptions.

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